Mama Prayed Here – The Ridge Church

I love old churches. They remind me of old hymns – Amazing Grace2, Be Still My Soul3, Victory in Jesus3 – all the old ones we carry around in our hearts and sing when we are in the most need of a good blessing. When I think of The Ridge Church, it’s The Church in the Wildwood1.

Although The Ridge Church is little, it is not “brown”, but I think of this song when I remember the church itself. Something about the lyrics and the melody just brings this church to my mind.

The Ridge – a little church in the “wildwoods” out there in the middle of nowhere in South Carolina. I should know more about this church – you’d think I would have more memories of it. Rarely have I been there – only a handful of times when I went to family reunions all as an adult. But it is nonetheless a part of me, and I think of it as Mama’s church.

Now, having said all that, I do not know how much Mama went to church there when she was a child or if she went to church there at all. So, why write about the church and indicate it was the church where mama prayed? Well, because it’s in Lowndesville and that is where she was born and where she grew up; Lowndesville is where she came from; and The Ridge is where her ancestors probably would have worshipped, where many of them are now laid to rest. The cemetery by the church is filled with Mama’s ancestors. My grandparents are buried there along with a good number of aunts, uncles and cousins. The names on the tombstones attest to their lives in Lowndesville and Iva and Abbeville…..all remind me that they are my Mama’s people; and, yes, they are my people too resting in peace there giving me a sense of the familiar, of home…and of Mama.

When you search online you can find a good bit about Lowndesville and the surrounding area but very little about The Ridge Church itself. Like many small churches that are no longer active, very little of the church history seems to have been written down or memorialized. Lowndesville itself is a “small” town. When I say that, I mean it is way smaller than any one-horse town you’ve heard of. As far as I know, Mama’s daddy was a sharecropper at the turn of the century, at a time when things were going well for farmers in the south and cotton was still king…..right up until the Great Depression. Prior to the depression, the town seems to have been a relatively prosperous railroad town….prosperous enough that the Southern Railway could pay for a belfry with a brass bell for a little church out in the woods a few miles outside of town.

The congregation was established in 1839 and first met under a brush arbor. For those who’ve never heard of a brush arbor, it is an outdoor meeting place – open sided – made of wooden poles with tree limbs (brush) across the top, where people met to worship God and have church meetings…think tent revivals but much earlier and more rustic. In 1840, a log house was constructed with pews of hewn logs with wooden pegs5. It was known then as the Ridge Meeting House and in 1890 the present church was built. This would be the church that I have come to know and the one that Mama would have known.

Sad to say, the church itself has become somewhat easier to find nowadays because it has been desecrated by vandals and some errant bloggers have made it a bit famous by telling the world online that the church is haunted so every year around Halloween, miscreants try to find it to desecrate it some more. Fortunately, The Ridge is now owned and managed by the Smyrna Methodist Church in town, and a locked gate on the roadway going up to the church has made it more difficult to get to the old church. Additionally, the doors are now kept locked and the windows have all been boarded up. The congregation at Smyrna provides for the ongoing upkeep of the church and the cemetery – sadly that includes painting over the smut left by vandals. Smyrna Methodist also holds special services at The Ridge several times a year including a candlelight service at Christmas.

My personal memories of Lowndesville and The Ridge Church are much more recent. When we have attended family reunions in the past, we always go over to the Ridge Church after dinner on Sunday….and it is always a good visit. The church is quiet and peaceful and beautiful in its simplicity – just an old wooden church sitting in the trees back off a dirt road in the middle of nowhere.

When I think of it now, I think of my cousin playing the piano while we gather around to sing a few old hymns. I remember my sister standing right there by him singing away while pointing her cane sternly at any of her grandkids who might have even a single thought to misbehave. Before we leave the church, we gather around the pulpit to pray for blessings and safe travels for all the cousins as we head back home later in the evening. Perhaps we prayed standing very near the spot where Mama would have sat with her sisters as a young girl, prayed for her family and maybe prayed for her future and the children she might have….perhaps she prayed that they might someday make their way back to her home in Lowndesville and to The Ridge Church “Where Friends Meet”.

Notes:

  1. THE BROWNS – THE CHURCH IN THE WILDWOOD LYRICS
    1. The Church in the Wildwood – Wikipedia
  2. Amazing Grace > Lyrics | John Newton
  3. Be Still, My Soul > Lyrics | Katharina A. von Schlegel
  4. Victory in Jesus > Lyrics | Eugene M. Bartlett
  5. I did find a blog written by a lady (Donna Bratcher) who lives down in South Carolina and writes about old buildings and churches there. Her blog is called Faded and Forgotten History. She was kind enough to send me an article from an old newspaper that she had used as a source for her blog, so I do have that bit of information. (If you’d like to read her blog about The Ridge Church, you can find it here.)

Chapel on the Mountain

Chatlos Memorial Chapel

Series: Old Country Churches

Before we left the property, I wanted to take one last look at the stone chapel. We’d attended a weeklong “intensive Bible study” at the Billy Graham Training Center, The Cove, near Asheville, North Carolina and now it was time to head back home.

When we arrived in Asheville a week earlier, we’d come to The Cove to have a look around a day before the seminar actually started. As you enter the entrance to the campus, the first thing you see off to the left is the chapel sitting up high against the mountain side with its eighty-seven (87) foot steeple crowned with a golden cross reaching another eight (8) feet up into the blue sky.

This chapel has to be one of the most beautiful in this country. Everything about it seems to have been designed and built for quiet meditation and prayer. Since it was Saturday, my idea was to attend services at the chapel on Sunday morning. But, when I asked the docent at the chapel about services, she told me that no services were held at the chapel. She said that sometimes visitors were inspired and stopped to sing a few hymns and to pray but actual services were held only on special occasions…maybe a Christmas candlelight service or something similar.

The training center does have a chaplain who is on duty on the campus, but I do not think he is a “pastor” in the sense of shepherding a congregation.

On hearing there would not be a service on Sunday morning, I was very disappointed but still, it is a beautiful chapel, and it does invite quiet meditation. As I wrote this, I got to wondering about the difference between a “church” and a “chapel” …. hadn’t thought of that before. So, I looked it up online (of course) and found that a chapel is a place of worship & prayer, primarily Christian but some synagogues have chapels, and chapels are usually small. A chapel may be within another larger chapel or within a church (think of a Catholic church with its smaller chapels to the side of the main sanctuary) or part of another building altogether that is not necessarily a church (think chapels within hospitals). It seems that a chapel refers primarily to the building or place. A church, on the other hand, can refer to the actual building where Christians meet to worship, the period of worship as in church service, a Christian organization, and/or the collective body of believers. (All this info comes from Wikipedia – see notes 7 & 8 below).

I learned something…but back to Chatlos Memorial Chapel at The Cove. The name comes from one of the main benefactors who donated funds for the chapel, The William Chatlos Foundation. When the Grahams purchased the 1500-acre mountain site at Porter’s Cove (the complex has since been expanded to 3500 acres), the plan was to build a training center where believers could come to learn about God and study the scriptures.

The chapel, completed first and dedicated in 1988, includes four (4) stories, each level having a specific function. The ground floor of the building follows the contour of the mountainside and is used for training and seminars (capacity: 50-60). All training was conducted here until the more spacious training center was completed in 1991.

One level up and you will find a museum floor – a multi-purpose area that is also used for informal receptions and fellowship (capacity: 180). This floor provides access to a large outdoor deck complete with rocking chairs allowing contemplation while you enjoy the beauty of the mountain forest (and I did – who can resist a rocking chair?). The displays contain photos and memorabilia of the various Billy Graham Crusades and his lifelong ministry.

One floor up is the main chapel floor. The official entrance to the chapel is at this level although you can access the bottom floors from separate entrances at the sides of the building. The sanctuary can accommodate about 220 people. Its ceiling is forty (40) feet above the floor which is made of “heart-of-pine” which could have been harvested right there on the property (although I do not know for sure). There are five (5) windows on either side of the sanctuary that are an impressive twenty-eight (28) feet tall.1 No stained glass here – the view of the mountain forest outside would seem to demand that the glass be clear.

The pews were originally used at the Royal School for the Blind (circa 1790) and shipped to the site in North Carolina from England.5  The pulpit made of white oak was purchased at a secondhand shop in England and is estimated to be more than 200 years old, maybe as much as 400 years old.1&5

Oh, the stories that could be told about the sermons that were preached at that pulpit over the years. I do the math – even two hundred years back would have been about 1823. Charles Spurgeon was born in 1834 – what a thought to think that Charles Spurgeon might have preached at that very pulpit! But it is sad that few, if any, sermons are preached from that pulpit today.

We take a quiet moment to say a prayer at the pulpit adding ours to the thousands of other prayers that have been spoken at that pulpit and in that chapel. Moving to the top floor upstairs from the chapel is the prayer room just beneath the steeple. The “loft” is small and intended to be another quiet place for prayer and meditation.

The exterior of the building is clad in blue fieldstone quarried there on the mountain. A wooden cross which adorns the side of the chapel was created by the three (3) rock masons who added the cladding of stone to the chapel.  

The chapel is beautiful in its simplicity and elegance, and it is easy to discern its intended purpose per Ruth Graham as a “haven for retreat, rest, relaxation and renewal.” 2 Ruth’s Prayer Garden surrounds the chapel providing even more opportunities to sit, relax, and wonder at God’s glory here in the mountains.

Believers come to this training site from all parts of the world to learn about God and to study the scriptures. Most visitors will come to the chapel at some point during their stay at The Cove – some will pause to sing a song or two – some will simply find a quiet place for study and reflection – almost all will stop for a moment as we did to say a prayer and thank God for this place and the opportunity to worship here.

As we departed our footsteps echoed throughout the empty chapel. While I felt the peace and solitude of the beautiful place, I was saddened that the chapel would remain mostly silent – no boisterous children in Sunday School singing about a boy named David at the top of their lungs, no women bustling about preparing potluck offerings for a good fifth Sunday fellowship dinner, no hands raised to heaven as the congregation sings “Blessed Assurance9, no weddings, no christenings, no funerals, and rarely a preacher bringing the gospel while praying in his heart that just one more soul would be saved, Lord, and our hearts be blessed. In its solitude, the chapel will forever remain a chapel, pristine and lovely, but will never have a congregation and will never evolve to be a church.

Statement of Faith link (from The Billy Graham Training Center)

How to Know Jesus link (from The Billy Graham Training Center)

Sources for Information:

  1. The Chatlos Memorial Chapel: A Look Into the Past – Billy Graham Training Center at the Cove; Decision Magazine; 1989;
  2. The Billy Graham Training Center at The Cove – Billy Graham Training Center at the Cove; Decision Magazine; March 1, 2018
  3. Our Story – Billy Graham Training Center at the Cove
  4. 7 Things You Should Know About the Chatlos Memorial Chapel & Visitors Center – Billy Graham Training Center at the Cove
  5. Faith & Footprints: The Chatlos Memorial Chapel – Asheville, NC | Osprey Observer; January 28, 2021; Kelly Wise Valdes; https://www.ospreyobserver.com
  6. The Cove Celebrates 25 Years of Ministry (billygraham.org) (This site includes photographs of the chapel being built.)
  7. Church – Wikipedia
  8. Chapel – Wikipedia
  9. Blessed Assurance > Lyrics | Frances J. Crosby (timelesstruths.org); 1873; Public Domain